i am single and i am happy

yeah, really... it may be a long while now that i haven't been in a relationship.. but the previous relationship if anyone can call it like that lasted for just a few months across the globe and over the net :D so, categorically, its not included even if i cried buckets when it lasted hehe

the truth of the matter is, even if i had 3 boyfriends, not at the same time though.. the longest relationship of which lasted 3 months, i dont know the feeling of having someone by my side.. well, aside from the blissful and kilig feeling..

dont get me wrong, i dont wanna be single for life and there were days that i also yearn for someone.. but at least, people, pls give me some respect.. i may be in my 30ish but im not in a hurry to get hitched. there are a lot of things that i want to do with my life. and getting the other half is not a part of it. not yet though. .. because im happy being single.

- i can do what i want, when i want and go where i want.
- i can decide for myself alone without considering another person's feelings.
- i wont depend on another human being to define me. self discovery and self preservation na dn.
- financially, i dont have to spend on gifts and dates.. which i dont intend to just depend on him.
- i dont have to worry about demands and lack of time which lately, i dont really have much of.
- i can sleep all i want.
- i can spend time with family and friends and most especially, myself.
- and most of all, i can independent.

but of course, in the near future, i want to see myself co-exists with another person. but right now, i dont have a space on my schedule. not yet.